If you are looking for a website that has successful executives and men who play hard during the day but want to spoil a woman by night, you are at the right place. Looking for a girl who knows how to have a good time?
You aren't the first person interested in discreet experiences with younger women, you just happen to be one of the ones that took longer to figure it out. Thankfully, you're in the right place. New York is the headquarters of many of America's largest companies and some of the hottest entertainers. In 1997, 46 corporations in the Fortune 500, had New York City headquarters, out of 61 corporations headquartered in New York state area.
New York City is a booming with young women and college girls who are all looking for the right established man - and the kind of mutually beneficial arrangement only he can provide. Here are five steps to successfully finding (and keeping) a sugar baby. Consider them a baseline for sustaining a reciprocal relationship that will provide both parties with enjoyment and pleasure.
5: Don't Treat Your Sugar Baby Like A Prostitute
There's no quicker way to drive off a potential partner than to treat her like she belongs on a street corner. New York is full of smart, educated women who know what they want and how to get it
. Isn't that a good thing? A successful relationship is when both parties are on the same page. Your benefit is her benefit, and she knows it. If she wasn't interested in a man who could provide, she wouldn't have found you in the first place.
Be honest about your needs and what you expect in return, but remember that you're both in this together. Treat her with respect and you'll receive the same. Consider your time with her as an investment of personal interest and time, not some kind of "chore" until you get to the good parts.
4: It's Okay To Be Picky And You MUST Exercise Patience
You don't have to choose the first person who comes along. It's okay to have discerning tastes and even multiple girls, as long as you're clear with your partners about the way you operate. It's your money, isn't it?
Some women won't be interested in the same things you are. Some won't interest *you*. Some will have different views on the relationship you're holding - and that more than anything can turn a relationship into a war zone. Make sure you both consider your arrangement the same way, through the same eyes, or prepare yourself for a lot of drama and misunderstanding down the road.
Sometimes you just aren't compatible with a woman outside the bedroom. Sex doesn't have to be the only baseline for your relationship, especially if you're looking for long-term excitement and thrills
Remember that you don't owe anyone anything. It's within your power to break off the relationship at any time, especially if/when she isn't responding to your needs in the way you'd like.
3: Keep It Personal
It might be tempting to dazzle her with a bunch of pricey outings, but just like you're not looking for a prostitute, a self-respecting woman won't be interested in an ostentatious display of your wealth. Remember, this is a mutually beneficial arrangement where she gets what she wants just as much as you do. It's best to plan your dates based on HER interests. Does she like Italian food? French? Is she more at home in a high-energy nightclub or a private bar?
By playing to her interests, you'll show that you're dedicated to keeping her comfortable and having a good time. You'll prove that you're not just your paycheck - you're a man who knows how to treat a woman.
Don't worry, you don't have to sacrifice luxury for a good time. There are plenty of the best bars, hotels, and five-star restaurants in New York that will pamper their clientele
without needlessly showing off. You can spoil your girl without the limitations of a small town. Entertainment is right at your fingertips.
Avoid the trendy, overpriced tourist traps of men trying too hard. Instead, try finding local attractions that excel in the area you're interested in. Just don't look for "Japanese restaurants." Look for "the best sushi restaurant in New York."
New York is a hot bed for all of the exquisite and finer things.
2: Don't Be Ashamed
There's nothing wrong with finding discreet, understanding company among younger women. In fact, it's almost noble. Instead of putting yourself through the trials and deception of regular dating, you're being up front about your needs and what you can offer in return. It's direct in a way that most men don't have the courage to face.
The right woman will respond to your honesty in kind. She's looking for an established man who can protect, provide, and spoil her - if you can give her what she needs, she'll do the same for you.
Besides, you're in New York! You're not in some small church town in the middle of nowhere. What grown adults get up to in the city that never sleeps... well, that's no one's business but your own.
1: Stick To Your Terms
This is the most important step, but it's often the first one that comes under fire. Once you've been seeing someone for awhile, the lines of reciprocity begin to blur - promises get broken, exchanges becomes ultimatums, and financial support breeds resentment.
Avoid this trap!
The sugar daddy relationship differs from the norm in that both of you have arranged it to benefit your personal desires
. Once you stop thinking of it like that, it's only a matter of time before everything else breaks down.
Don't be the man who backs down from your word. Don't try to wiggle out of an arrangement just because you think the stakes have changed. If you promise something, deliver. (And it's okay to hold your woman to the same standards - it's only fair.)
Once you've established the groundwork for your relationship, stick to it. You'll be much happier, and so will your woman.
After all, in this kind of relationship, both of you are getting what you want. Is that any real surprise?